Jenny
Protect yourself and your children
I dont believe they want to hurt us deliberately
they are in a fog of denial
How else could a person just walk away especially from their kids
Your H OW 39..she might be in MLC herself- a perfect pair
so for now
take care of you
be the best mom you can
get support emotionally from IC ,boards and friends who seem to understand
I have one friend who went theu this 24 years ago with her H(They are together)
and I know another friend who left her H(she was in MLC)
20 years later she still has some guilt and regret.
her H remarried
so its good to have someone to talk with
and hang on
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow