Yes... and I know you already know this, but it's a loving "letting go." Doing it for their happiness and that you finally feel ready to move on with your life... and are determined to be happy wherever life leads. Hey, life is short, you might as well choose happiness. Also, that you would never want anyone "with you" unless they wanted to be with you 100%. That wouldn't be fair for anyone.... and you'll always be friends because you do have a history and kids together.
And no matter how sad you feel, be happy, be busy, and smile and remind your husband, "Life is good..." and you are ready to move on and meet it and you are excited about that!
Think it, live it, and it becomes it...
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
