Taking it day by day...

[Hurtin4certain]

Thanks Jar... Im hoping when I file for the Big D it will serve as a wake up call that Im going to take care of myself and our D. Hopefully she will she that as me gaining self confidence and regaining my self respect and dignity.

If not, then I know I have to truly let go and move on. Feel the pain until it subsides.

I think one of the things Im dealing with is that I feel I need to have someone to validate my self worth. Basically like I have to be in a R to feel good about myself. I now realize that and will work on becoming happy alone before I get into anything with another woman.