Quoting Jamesjohn: Where do you see your relationship as being at one the marriage map? I don't have my book with me but I think we were close to the end of enjoying our lives together but OW came into the picture...
What places have you been already? Where do you see yourself now? Where would you like to be?
Do you think that it's possible for you get any further down the road on the map? Yes if H is only willing to go there with me and give up OW.
Do you believe yet that there could be a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow?! I hope so, we were good friends for 25 yrs M 21 out of the 25, have 3 D 20,19,17 and now a grandson 4 mos. We had our ups and downs and we always made it through everything even the bad accident my D had in 99. Now when everyone is almost grown I find myself alone on this road-where did H go? and will he come and join me soon?