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and you'd always feel like second place.


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I could be wrong, but that might be something to consider....



Yes, and yes. I suppose I am creating my own LRT. I never wanted to say out loud "We'll sell the house" because I don't want to do that, but something has to change. If I have to sell it, I will. I am prepared to see the mortgage person this week because I said I would to H, and I have to follow through.

I agree, H needs some real fear that I am gone.