I disagree with the LBS moving out in principle. However, the point was raised as to his consistancy and keeping his word. Because of her view of the alcohol issue and how long that issue often takes to overcome with spouses, perhaps consistancy is a valid concern for him to address. Sometimes we commit to something before we know what it entails. Sometimes we trap ourselves.
I see your point and yet I fail to realize where he should be held to a higher standard here regarding his word. He hasn't been abusive toward his family. He busted his ass so his wife could train for a career. We can assume he is guilty of neglecting his wifes needs. We know he developed a habit that ended with a DUI. The punishment does not fit the crime. The guy is making great strides toward cleaning up his act. He has been sober since the arrest so he gets an atta boy.
With kids there is too much at stake to move out. If there where a way to wipe a moment from my memory banks it would be the night my daughter tearfully said "Daddy, you are never coming home?". She was three at the time and it haunts me to this day.
