She may end up cherishing the sweater since it seems like a bigger deal to her now. Unfortunately, the opposite may happen to make a point. My POV is to simply buy her something with the best intention and what she decides to do with it is up to her.
I found a sweatshirt of mine that she used to wear as a nightshirt in the winter. I hung it up in my closet for when she returns. She always looked so cute in it. (And out of it )
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
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