Get that book back. (spot on Racer Chick!!) 7 months of a 180, that pretty good. Were you doing any of the other steps? A 180 alone will not change the course.
Help you. OK. GAL, Get a Life, you are going to have to let her go, cause the tighter you try to hold onto her the more she is going to resist. The more you try to control her overtly or subvertly the more she is going to resent you.
You get through this by going through it, there is no path around it.
She is having an affair, you need to be faithful to your vows; sorry life isn't fair. Suck it up.
Post here alot, vent, live the good advice given here. Do your best.
Do not be pathetic around her.
Once you have been here awhile people will point you in the right direction of where to post. And after awhile you'll be ready for the advice from those particular boards. You'll know with more certainty if you can hack this.
I am sorry for your pain.
You'll suck up tons more and find out alot about yourself in this process.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
