The sleeping in separate rooms bothers me. It is like you two are running from conflict to a safe haven. I'm worried that you will not be able to recover from this sleeping arrangement if it goes on too long.
I'm glad you were able to speak up during your conflict. Were you able to have some input as to the design though?
Sounds like you are doing well.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
