She needs/wants space. Give it to her. If she refuses to stop seeing OM and they are having a R you need to focus on you and not them.
It's going to take time and patience.
You work on you, for you. That way, no matter what happens, you will be a better man and father for it.
Don't focus on or even think about OM (i know that's nearly impossible) because it won't help you. Are noticing that her sole focus is her. Her happiness. Her love with OM. Her space. Now you do the same. You be Your main focus. What can you do to make you happy? not what would make you happy (ie havnig W back) but what specifically can you do.
You will have many ups and downs, but hang in there. Post here and read what others are going through.
take care ann
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
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