Two things are true. One is that if you didn't have that fear you already would have simply done "what you have to do". The second thing is that she may very well say that and even think that she means it but be kidding herself. She KNOWS you are unhappy so she has already reconciled the "worst-case scenario" books in her mind in order to continue her current behavior but she might not be a very fore-sighted bookkeeper.
I think I understand what you're saying. I'll read through it a few more times tonight.
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Actually, a third thing is true. You are almost certainly more unhappy with your marriage than you know. Every time somebody comes to this BB and says "everything is great except for the sex" they are usually full of cr*p.
Is it possible that its the other way around? That I'm more unhappy with the marriage because of the lack of sex?
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Me: 52 Her: 48 2D 26 & 16 M: 25 years (together 30) EA/discovered by accident Valentines day 2016 Admitted SOME physical but no IC. We know that's a lie. Status - tryin to R
