I saw that Monty Python thing. That should be a lot of fun!!!! Much more fun than a ballet. Heck even I have a hard time sitting through a ballet and I studied it for 15 years (and both my mother and grandmother briefly danced professionally!).
In marriage we may not have perfect relationships, or perfect lives, but a relatively comfortable routine (even with "down" time) is not without value. Hope that makes sense...
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.