WAW staying, I'm leaving to give her space..

[theforlornhope]

I have a question for those advising jaBRWok to move out.

Have you moved out?

I disagree with the LBS moving out in principle. However, the point was raised as to his consistancy and keeping his word. Because of her view of the alcohol issue and how long that issue often takes to overcome with spouses, perhaps consistancy is a valid concern for him to address. Sometimes we commit to something before we know what it entails. Sometimes we trap ourselves.

JAB, I like the suggestion that you make it clear that you are doing this for the Court purposes, and will be returning at the end of that.

Either way, Stay here, learn here. You are blessed with an unusually large number of really well experienced DBers posting to your thread. (not including me,)

I can only offer one good piece of advice. Read and listen to them.