Cemar, I don't know what your problem is. Are you so one-sided that you can never see the woman's point of view in anything? How can you ask what is in it for my H and how can you say that I don't have to do anything unconditionally? Did you not read what I posted?
One thing that might be in it for my H is a wife that doesn't walk out b/c I'm mighty close to it. And if your remarks are any indication of what it is like to live with you, then you must be one selfish man b/c most of the responses from you have been the same, "What's in it for the husband?"
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
