Heim, my fellow radar-challenged one,

Glad you're back up with a new thread. The meetup sounds cool---good to see you trying something new.

I also think it's a good sign that W is comfortable enough not to hide from you where she's going. Your challenge, should you choose to accept it, is to ignore that gesture and continue to give her even more space than you think she wants. You game?

Enjoy the fat cat. Take care.


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