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Thats a difficult question and the reason why I'm here.


Yes it is. And I think (I could be wrong) that until you decide what your answer is to that question, your W won't have to decide whether she wants to do what is necessary to make a good marriage.

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I've read a poll on here somewhere where someone asked could you have a relationship without sex - the overwhelming answer was no.


Just to nitpick ... replace 'relationship' with 'marriage.'

And the most important answer is not what anyone else would do, but what would you do. The hardest thing any of us have to do is stand and face ourselves and decide what it is that we want out of life, and what it is we are willing to live without. And this is one of those things that must be done alone, just like dying. People can give you advice, perhaps help you make up your mind with witty observations, but at some point you have to look into your soul and decide. Until you do, others can abuse you for your indecision.

Chrome


"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"

Inertia Creeps by Massive Attack