Jak,
If my W sent me a letter like this, I would consider it a wake-up call, and would sit down with her and have a hearfelt conversation. I would appreciate the warning, and the opportunity to still work things out before it's too late.

Good luck.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching