Another newbie with a problem - long story

[Stormchaser]

Let me throw it back at you ... what would you do if you knew that she would never try to work with you to fix this situation?

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Thats a difficult question and the reason why I'm here.

The positives are the kids, the house, everything we've built up to until now. The memories of 20 years. Its as if the positives far outweigh the negatives - yet its that one negative that stands out like a spotlight.

I've read a poll on here somewhere where someone asked could you have a relationship without sex - the overwhelming answer was no.