Taking it day by day...

[Hurtin4certain]

Yeah... I dont think my W has what it takes to work on our issues and fight for the M, she doesnt even want to at the moment.

She was always so quick to bail anytime is got a little hairy.

I think you're right about W's facing their issues and how they will continue to repeat these patterns until they can look in the mirror. I can see this guy being the 1st of many to come.

Knowing my W though, she will give him her soul until he does something to piss her off, thats when her true colors will show. But she wont show her true colors until quite some time has passed, unfortunately.

Although I know what I need to do, I DO NOT want a divorce. I wish to remain married but my W is hurting our kid mentally with her actions.

This sucks.