jaBRWork - you are ignoring the rules.

This is not about what YOU need. Focus, focus, focus. You are to keep HER pace - maybe even lag a tiny bit behind her.

You are to focus on being a better man and a better father. That will make you a better husband and her best option.


Me - 43 and She -36. No kids.
Married 7 yrs - Together 14 yrs