Where are some places where you could start "stealing" some time from your day to spend with your partner, and what things could you do?
One place that I started was spending some time with my wife in the kitchen. Helping her to cook some meals, and do the dishes.
It wasn't a major thing, I just grabbed stuff out of the fridge for her, a few spices here and there, grabbed some pots, gathered dirty dishes, dried the clean ones, etc. No big deal, right?
The first time I did this, we didn't "talk" much through it. Just some basic stuff about the tasks at hand. However, after we were done, she told me how nice it was for us to spend the time together. So, seeing as how this was "something that was working", I kept doing more of it, and things kept getting better. We started talking more about things, about "us", and just generally started connecting more.
What we were doing was stuff that needed to be done anyway, we were just doing it together.
How many "little things" like this might you be overlooking? How might you be able to take a few minutes here and there with your partner to just spend some time together?
Ladies, what might the guys here be able to do with, and for, their partners?
Guys, what might the ladies be able to do?
Remember to look at the "little things", and keep it simple. Who knows where it may lead from there!!
JJ
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