Another newbie with a problem - long story

[Stormchaser]

Storm,

I wish I had great advice for you, but I don't. It sounds like you are already doing pretty well as of late.

My wife is similar in that, unless she has had a few glasses of wine, nothing is going to happen that night. I can't remember the last time we had sex completely sober. I know exactly where you are coming from on this and to be honest, I have been willing to accept this rather than fight it. I admire you for trying to resolve it.

Sorry I don't have anything more helpful, but I wanted to let you know I feel your pain.

PF

Thanks, PF. I think the last time we had sober sex was a morning quickie about three months ago.

I mean, how do you accept/handle this? What do YOU do for release? Quite frankly, to quote the Greenday song, masturbation has lost its fun.