Another newbie with a problem - long story

[Stormchaser]

"2) Please tell me what other "romantic" gestures I can do for you that would make me more desirable in your eyes."

Generally, a statement like that is not going to produce the response that you want.

Much like her comment to "get it elsewhere", this comment was made out of anger.

I think you would be better coming up with romantic gestures on your own rather than getting ideas from her. Of course you can try to glean clues by "watching" her closely. And the romantic gestures need to be just that, not payment in advance for sex.

What I took offense to was the fact that I'm generally a romantic person, at least I thought I was. I would really like to know what "romantic ideas" are in her book, because we're obviously miles apart.

Also, she needs to find her own sexuality, not depend on your behavior to give it to her.

Chrome

Question: What if she doesn't want (or care) to find it?