While dropping the bomb my W said that its not you but its me. Translated: I have fallen out of love, it was not your fault but mine. But the problem was not what she said back then. The issue is what she was willing to do and change these feelings and inner arguments that made her fall out of love. The answer: Nothing! She expected that only I should make her fall in love again. Conflicts started, arguments evolved (never argued before), tension, etc. W filed for D 1 month ago. Said I had my chances to change her feelings in the past 9 months but did not. Is this fair?I made many mistakes during this period (overcontrolling, jealous, pushing, crying, begging) but if she never had the will to work and change her feelings nothing was going to bring us together again.
