"2) Please tell me what other "romantic" gestures I can do for you that would make me more desirable in your eyes."
Generally, a statement like that is not going to produce the response that you want.
I think you would be better coming up with romantic guestures on your own rather than getting ideas from her. Of course you can try to glean clues by "watching" her closely. And the romantic guestures need to be just that, not payment in advance for sex.
Also, she needs to find her own sexuality, not depend on your behavior to give it to her.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
