Something strikes me in your story and its your age, and at your age there is going to be elements of immaturity...I don't mean it in a bad way, but its going to be there. I honestly think that you both are acting a little bit immaturly, and thats to be expected, you are both still so young, and to be in this situation. When we marry we all have such wonderful expectations for our marriage, and what married life is going to be like! And when reality sets in we come crashing down. There are choice's we can make, we can realize that we now move into building a real marriage, with its everyday mundane things, diaper changes, laundry, cleaning...or we can pine for the magic and live with unrealistice expectations. Our new love feelings just can't be sustained, it has to settle down into something more solid, something stronger, quieter, and I think maybe this is the problem with you both. In retrouvaille, they tell us love is a choice! And I believe that...you have to choose what you want. And work towards that.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
