Waiting for WAW to come back, patience is a virtue

[soul_mate]

I am trying to view this from her side, but I am having a little trouble. Just like so many waw's they don't want to take ownership of their share of the problem.

The fact is that she should not judge you for what you did during this time since she was not in your shoes. You did everything with good intentions and again she was not in your shoes and therefore cannot understand what you were going through. Just like you should not judge her since you were not in her shoes with the postpartum.