Mwel, You don't need to get involved with anyone else right now. Now is the time to focus on you, to learn who you are again and how strong and content you really can be as an individual again. Getting involved with someone else before we've taken adequate time to heal and to grow is the mistake our spouses have made, and they are going to some day be in for more hurt and misery as a result of their foolishness -- we don't need to repeat their mistakes.
I meant date as in just going out as friends, with a friend, just have some fun…that kinda thing. I do not want to get involved with someone right now because you’re right, I need some time to focus on me. I’m just lonely... I really do want to take some time to focus on me and rediscover who I am and who I really want to be.
Originally Posted By: NoCodeBlues
And if your spouse can't see how you've grown into the supremely desirable person you can be, then that will be her loss.
No she hasn’t, but then again she has to be home to see that. I agree, it is her loss and she is really going to miss out on a great and loving guy and what a great life she could of had.
Originally Posted By: NoCodeBlues
If in time you do meet someone else, and you have had that time to learn to find peace and confidence in who you are, then you will have so much to offer that person -- and they will see that.
This is why I want to take some time to figure out who I am and want I can be. When I do then if I meet someone then they will benefit from being with me…
