Originally Posted By: Hurtin4certain

Remain calm during your talk because I guarantee you, he will say some things that are going to hurt and are going to piss you off. Be prepared for that.




Yes, he probably will. You confronting him will rock his perfect little world and he will get defensive. Be ready for the blame shift game and how its your fault somehow. I was in the hospital saturday night with some possible preterm labor. My dh wasn't home and stayed out all night. He had no idea I even went. I tried twice to call and a friend went by his house 3 times. When he found out he said I should have tried harder to get ahold of him and he got angry.

Remember a quote I saw on here a few days ago:
Anger is guilt turned outwards.

You can do this.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!