WAW staying, I'm leaving to give her space..

[Jack_Three_Beans]

I feel like W and I need to have a SERIOUS discussion tonight or tomorrow. I would like to find out where she stands at the moment. I want to try and validate some of her feelings and let her know where I stand before I go. I know it's probably against the DB rules but I feel like I need to do this. If the conversation starts going south I'll just end it. This doesn't mean that I'll bring up the stuff I found out over the past few days but I almost feel like I have to tell her that I know more than she thinks (I don't have to divulge the details).

Tell you what, On Thursday when you realize just how bad this went, I promise not to say I told you so.

Tomorrow night:

STFU!!!!!!!

Hey, there is nothing magical that you are going to say to make her change her mind, to open her eyes, to make her understand. There is no magic bullet or quick fix.

You do not need anything and the answers yout think you REALLY REALLY want she isn't going to give you. All you are going to do is confront her and rile her up and pi$$ her off, and ACTUALLY make it easier for her.

I feel like...I need...I would like...I want...but I feel like...I almost feel like I have to tell...

This will go very badly for you.

Just cowboy up, and STFU.

Chicks actually strong silent types, not needy talkative types.
Hopefully the day to talk will come, but you don't have the tools or dettachment to talk in a good way at the moment.
Your are going to be pure emotion.

It will go wrong.

PS - for the record please tell me that you have dumped someone before. Please tell me that they tried to keep you around, because if you have, then you might have a clue what your NEEDS are doing to your wife.