WAW hasn't walked yet, but emotionally dead

[mako]

As always, thanks for the comments all.

You always see it on these boards: detachment is key, until you let them go they won't even consider coming back. It's very scary and takes some time to get there, but I think I am now.

BD-I'm going to take it slow and follow her lead for now. If she gets more responsive I may step up things a little. Slow though. Thanks for the tip about the wineries, may check em out.

Lush-I sure don't get it, but I'll give her what she wants right now. To do otherwise will push her further away.

John-my W is also seemingly most comfortable with me on e-mail. That's even how she dropped the bomb! I hope with some time to herself, knowing that I am safely leaving her alone, she'll too start to think of the good times. Or at the very least do some work on herself, I get the impression she's not quite where she wants to be and needs some time for herself.