WAW staying, I'm leaving to give her space..

[jab]

Wow!

Thanks everyone! I won't send the letter. I'm continuing my move but do plan on coming back after a few months. I need time to figure some things out and it will give me time to do that.

Once again, I'm going to digest all this advice and take it seriously.

I think I can do everything you are saying but there's one thing....

I feel like W and I need to have a SERIOUS discussion tonight or tomorrow. I would like to find out where she stands at the moment. I want to try and validate some of her feelings and let her know where I stand before I go. I know it's probably against the DB rules but I feel like I need to do this. If the conversation starts going south I'll just end it. This doesn't mean that I'll bring up the stuff I found out over the past few days but I almost feel like I have to tell her that I know more than she thinks (I don't have to divulge the details).