Wow, mwel, what a selfish sob. "We really dont need to learn how to talk to each other". Huh? She is happy? Maybe at the moment, but I will venture a guess that she will be miserable sometime in the future, as most WA's are. She may then realize what she lost and it will be too late. It is amazing how many people that i have talked to over the last few months that have been D, (kinda like buying a new car and as you drive, seeing all same cars on the road) and the majority have said that the walk away spouse has come back a few years later to admit they made a mistake. Isn't that sad? Hang in there, life will get better.
Yes I know, she is selfish. She is a “ME” person. Everything must be about her.. I told her that I would like to talk to her again and that I think we needed to learn how to talk with each other. She says that she is happy. She has OM and she is happy.. Not to sound mean but I hope that she will be miserable sometimes and I hope she realizes what she had and lost…and when (if) that day comes I just hope that I have the strength to tell her how I feel…maybe I would want her maybe I wouldn’t. Right now I pray that she comes back to admit that she made a mistake, I don’t know if I will say the same thing in the future.. It is sad that the majority of WAS come back and admit it, when they could have prevented from the beginning. M is work, it doesn’t come easy. I wish my W would realize that. I’m hanging by a thread…I hope life will get better…
