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[MJontheMend]

'm not sure I'm understanding what you are saying. Is it the book that makes you mad or that many women lose themselves sexually with motherhood?

I just read the reviews and they seemed to indicate that it was promoting a sort of Earth Goddess sexuality which I think is a good thing because it is one healthy, earthy way to be sexual. Basically, that's how I maintained my sexuality when I was in my breeding phase. I just remember being a young HD mother standing in line at the alternative college town video store with a baby in a sling and a toddler running about renting some porn in order to get my H turned on enough to have sex with me. I didn't want romance. I wanted hot, earthy, raw "I am a woman in her power who can use her body fully" sex but the boy I married was still in teen fantasy MB mode. It makes me sad to think about that. In retrospect, it seems likely to me that he might have acted more like a man if I had stayed more like a girl but I didn't feel girlishly sexual when I was in mother mode. I felt strong and womanly. It's so counter-intuitive but so true that we often unconsciously signal for the opposite of the sexual partner that we really want. For instance, I find it very often to be the case that if I'm thinking "I want you to f*ck my brains out." and I don't consider my actions to further that goal, I end up on top of a guy basically f*cking his brains out instead. Which works for me too but ....