Dang Mc... my W did the same thing when she left... I found out she had bought lots of Victorias Secret thongs and stuff like that.

Its truly a shame that she is throwing everything away. But I agree that should not be a doormat in this instance.

Put your foot down, show her you demand respect. If it doesnt work out with OM, SHE will need to convince you to take her back, not the other way around.

Best wishes.

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07