WAW hasn't walked yet, but emotionally dead

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Sounds like a solid plan mako. Give her the opportunity to miss you by continuing to not initiate contact (and don't be too eager/effusive when you respond). My wife said something similar re it being too hard (in her case, for physical or phone contact) and I also didn't quite understand it. Even if you don't understand it, respect her wishes. Good idea re detaching, something I need to work on as well.