Tough one, Mako. If she's open to email/phone contact, the occassional, "hey, how you doing" or "I saw something funny and wanted to share" look to be OK. Once a week maybe?

You've got the idea behind detaching down, wish I had gotten it as quickly.

Quote:
getting out and living my life without her


Bingo. Some pretty good wineries in northern virginia -- Breaux, Chrysalis, Tarawa, couple others -- if you like that sort of thing.

BD


My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.