You put together a great list in a short amount of time!!
If we were to just focus on just the positive, the things that the two of you have in common, you've got a lot of points of connection to work with.
What things can you do that might help you connect with each other better, with these things in mind?
As for your differences, how could you use these things as a way to connect also? How could you learn to appreciate each other's differences? How could you exchange ideas in a way that might work?
What are some ways that may have worked in the past? Were there any times when the two of you peacefully agreed to disagree? Times when you may have learned from each other on your differing points of view?
JJ
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