I fully expect a lot of anger. I expect zero remorse, zero admissions, zero requests for forgiveness....etc. Trust me, I have NO expectations from him on this.
I guess my question is about devulging what I know. Rob, you said...don't give a list of details. How do I say it without letting him know that I'm aware of everything. I need to bring up D3 also, but I'm very afraid of making him think I'm attacking him as a father. No, I am not happy with how he's been with her, but I don't want to push that issue to far.
I know that only I can do this, but any suggestions on how??
One thing I thought about saying after is....I'm determined to be happy. I'd prefer to be happy with you and as a family, but I need to be happy either way, for me and D3. I also need to ask you not to contact OW while you are home. This isn't fair to me or D3. This is our home and we don't deserve to have this happen here.
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SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day