The A isn't about you or about your M, it is hers and hers alone to deal with. My W did the same thing. She has now come clean and we have talked a little about it, but she stated there was nothing I could have said or done to change or stop her actions. So all I did on the few occasions when I did confront is drive her to him, she stated it. Well it "appears" to be going the way of the Dodo, right at about 6 months. So they do end, they do fall apart. Can't build a home on shaky ground. But you have to focus on you, this is her hell to drive through and all you can do is sit back watch and pray.
