WAW staying, I'm leaving to give her space..

[jab]

Thanks,

I'm really trying my best to keep a cool head and not jump to any irrational decisions or actions.

I needed to validate for myself that something was going on and it wasn't my imagination. I snooped, when we are in S, I can't snoop anymore. In one way it makes me feel better but on the other hand, if I knew a couple weeks ago what I know now my decision would have been different. I had no proof, just 'a feeling'.

I'm not really sure what I'm going to do at this point. I'm still digesting the info. I keep thinking to myself that I cannot do anything to stop W's actions right now. I keep thinking that maybe I'm jumping to conclusions and it isn't what I'm thinking. If I keep this to myself, I'm going to have a hard time with it. I really want to just bring out the truth but have no idea how to do that without shooting myself in the foot. I think I'm just going to sit on this info for 24-48 hours and continue with the move out, it can still be reversed although every day that passes it gets more difficult to reverse.

Regardless, I'm going to perform damage control. I won't act like I'm doing it but no way am I taking my name off mortgage at this point. I have to prepare myself for the worst at all cost and retain what is rightfully mine as far as assets go. That's what is scaring the hell out of me right now, the fact that none of this S agreement is documented, it's all informal. My head is on the chopping block right now if it turns into a legal battle. This is one reason why I'm trying to keep calm and not do anything to worsen the sitch.

My whole thinking was to just try and give her some 'alone time' to collect her thoughts, calm down and see where it goes. Right now, I don't see it going anywhere but I know it's still pretty early in the game.