These are the exact things my wife has been telling me. In fact just yesterday she told me that she hopes one day we can have the friendship we can't seem to have right now. She's happier this way, she has already moved on and we are already divorced in her mind.
This is what my W tells me. She has already moved and I think we are divorced in her mind also. She has someone and that she is happy. I hate the fact that she is happy with OM, it makes me sick to my stomach sometimes..
Guys, this must be something from the WAW playbook/script. My W has told me these very same things early after the bomb, five months ago now. The rationalization of the A stems from some twisted thinking that they can unilaterally dissolve the marriage in their own mind, and that somehow makes it final and justified -- even without mentioning a word to us, the other partner in this contract.
My W has gone even further to state that she believes God has blessed her decision to end the covenant.
But don't buy into it. Believe nothing of what they say, especially while they are intoxicated with the A endorphins.
