jaBRWok, You have a tough decision ahead of you. I know the impacts of these decisions also. Your situation caught my eye as my red flag meter was off the chart. Even though you and I don't know each other I could not pass by (knowingly) without giving my opinion (and it is just that) as to what I see developing.
I will state again: she is not looking out for you and that is the bottom line. Damage control and making sure that YOU get a fair shake in this is a priority. The path you are on will test you to your limits and you will see exactly what you are made of. I have no doubt that however it goes you will still be standing somewhere with your head high.
A cool head with thought based on logic and not emotion is where you need to be.
