OK OK I got it now. All my life I have had disagreemensts that were never resolved. I hold in my anger then blow. I am 42yrs old now and am finally telling people just how I feel. With my H I was afraid of his anger so i would hide. Not good. He hated the silent treatment. I do not have a problem with agreeing to disagree. I think it is the easy way to get along. We are all different and it is normal to not see eye to eye on everything. Compromise is the key to life. I am looking for ways to change discussions with my H. He is instantly angry with me over anything anymore. I want to talk to him bad and have a decent conversation. It been 8weeks since he left and I have had NO contact in 2 weeks. I am scared to call or see him because I can't think, my heart beats out of my chest because I just want him to come home to me. I want to tell him what I read in Michelle's book and that I CAN fix our lives and we CAN be happy again. What do I do? Please, tell me something. I am waiting for my DB books to come in mail. I read Sex Starved Marriage( I had it for 3 months. If only I had read it before he left) but I need help now. Anything. Thank you
