You are getting too worked up, remember when u snoop u find things that u dont want to. My W looked into getting tubes tide, she is allergic to pretty much every type of birth control, this is a woman who wanted 4-6 kids we only have 2 now. If there is an EA or PA there is nothing u can do about it, if you start in at her about it you will be pushing her closer to it. Stay strong and detach you need to for your own sanity...
Me 35 W 26 S 3 D 10 months I have custody Bomb 11/9/07 W PA 10/07 ended 2/08 Removed W from house 11/16/07 I filed in Nov. D put on hold http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1268484&page=6&fpart=16