LL - thanks for stopping by. We used to check up on each other a lot back in the 2002/3 timeframe so it's great to renew acquaintances. \:\)

Reading back over my reply, I can see where the last paragraph can be seen as a bit mean - and I really don't want to be that way as it makes me uncomfortable.

As for W's issues with me - I wish I knew what they are. My IC told me the same thing that you have - the porn was the trigger but there is "the elephant in the living room" that does not have a name. I did find out by accident that W is trying to meet up with someone this weekend. I didn't recognize the name as a recurring friend and she has not told me a thing about it. I'll need to wait and let this develop on its own...


Me 52, STBEX 52
D 17, S 12
M 20 years
Em Sep since 2002, Phys Sep Sept 2009