1. One make-out session 2. Quickie 3. Massage 4. A trip to Victoria’s Secret together, then a private striptease later that night! 5. Shower for two, no self sudsing allowed. 6. Fresh baked cookies of your choice. 7. Something fun, something new, take your pick, I’ll try it with you. 8. A night with me and no tv. 9. Homemade dinner of your choice and I’ll be the dessert. 10. Pizza night and I’ll put the kids to bed while you spend an hour to yourself. 11. Make me your slave! I’ll wear, say and do whatever you desire. 12. Dinner & a movie and you pick the flick! 13. Be on the receiving end of a naughty long distance phone call while you are out of town. 14. Breakfast in bed, followed by an afternoon delight. 15. Drop me off for a Brazilian wax – while I’m there, buy new panties for me to wear! 16. An evening in a sleeping bag under the stars. I’ll make you beg for s’more! 17. Let’s have a playdate in bed – you pick the toys! 18. Game Night! Time for some Strip Uno! 19. Let’s go for a Sunday drive so I can get below your Bible Belt.
So, that is a LONG list and I suppose I could just stop there. Hopefully, he would be happy if I did all of these things!! I am trying to come up with the best format. Since it involves sex, he's more likely to play along and keep up with it, but in the past, things like this, I guess he just finds cheesy and he gets busy and never does them after a while. I could put them on strips of paper and stick them in a jar. One for every two weeks of the year? I could put them in a book with two for every month? I could just put them all together and let him pick and choose as freely as he likes, in which case I would probably not be able to walk in January, and I'd probably never bake him cookies, because he would never get around to that one. lol!
One thing I'm noticing is that this whole last year or so has been so about how I DO NOT FULFILL HIM. He says that he needs more passion (hot sex), but when I recently said that I would like him to try and be more romantic, like I have tried to be more sexy, he came back defensively with, "That's just me. I'm not that way. I was like this when you met me. Be happy with me as I am." I responded with, "Like I'm just frigid?!" Sarcastic and not helpful I know, but I am starting to feel like I have pushed myself out of my own box some and I'd like him to do the same. It may not be totally natural for me to concentrate on having hot sex on a weeknight or realizing that I haven't worn lingerie or gotten "into it" in a while, but by the same token, it may not be natural for him to do something romantic for me, but that's what I need.
Ok, I'm rambling, gotta go feed the kids and finish painting the kitchen. He just called and will come home late tonight. (He is in Orlando, the place where he met Pam at a conference last January.)
