I would also like to know how to stop bf "mind-reading" me...! He builds up these scenarios in his head of how I'll react, and then avoids me or lies to me...

Maybe I've given him reason to think this way from my previous reactions - I don't really understand how to have conflict in a constructive way, so maybe I just bulldoze...

Can I learn how to do this?
Mel


It's time to live, it's time to love, it's time to do what's afraid of It's time to breathe, time to relieve, it's time to shine