Please keep them coming! MJ, you always make me laugh. Of course, you always make me feel a bit inferior in this dept, because you are so "monkey".
#1, I don't think he would ever do. If he did, I would be turned on. #2, he has said things similar to this, but it comes out more raunchy and almost pissy. Hard to describe, but he sometimes acts like he wants to "get me" by proving that other guys are attracted to me, but no women are ever attracted to him. (not true, just something he likes to try and prove.) As a matter of fact, we had a date night last week (at my urging, btw, b4 he left town for a biz trip), and when we headed out for a drink at a bar after dinner, he suggested we enter separately and sit at separate tables to see who would get hit on first. Well, we did, but he gave up and came and sat down by me after a couple of minutes. PS, he got so tired that night, he fell asleep almost as soon as we got home and we ended up having no sex before his trip.
#3 I hate to admit it, but I do not get off at all on my boobs being touched. Sometimes the touch feels romantic, as if he is appreciating my body, but for me, it is just an area that he is more likely to make me jump.
#4 I would like the action of the teasing type sex, but I have such a hard time imagining him talking that way. It probably would be exciting and make me a bit uncomfortable at the same time. Also, I have sucked his lip some while kissing him. Just need to do it more often I'm sure.
RHW: Yep, you're right, we don't usually have a lot of $ and that is always, unfortunately, a consideration, but of the two of us, I am always more likely to say, screw it, we need it, let's put it on the credit card, money well spent. Most of our counseling sessions were on credit card. We have just recently stopped going b/c of money though. I have tried repeatedly to set up regular date nights, weeekends away with babysitters, etc. It's weird how he acts like he wants that time with me so badly, but drags his feet when it comes to actually doing it.
Eddie, you're right, I would have a hard time picking out lingerie for myself or for a girlfriend (trying to take into account size, etc.), so I imagine it would be REALLY hard for a guy. I have never asked him to do that. (I am the type to send him to the store for tampons, you know?) BUT, a lot of lingeried is simply slip on, etc. So, if the piece weren't too complicated, I think it would be cool to have something he picked out. He just SOOO does not get into that kind of thing. I have a Victoria's Secret catalog in the bathroom right now and would love it if he picked something out with me in mind. I have told him this before, but it's never happened. He has mostly come back with how he would be happy if I would just wear the two little nighties I have in my closet now (one slip nighty from our dating days and one fancier nighty from our wedding night.) I have worn them on occasion, but honestly maybe once a year or so. Sounds pretty bad, huh?
Well, I'll post the ideas I came up with last night. (Yes, stayed up way too late thinking about it.) I went ahead and included things that cost money because I'm realizing that I'm getting REALLY sick of $ dictating so much for us. I think I would feel a lot sexier if I occasionally got some pampering, etc. For so long, I've been content keeping myself last on the list, no new clothes, going a year and a half w/o a haircut, etc. Enough!! It just reminds me that I'm ONLY a stay-at-home-mom and my appearance doesn't really matter, which is not conducive at all to feeling sexy. Anyhow, one of the ideas I had involved him shopping for something sexy for me and I think he'll have a hard time with it, but hopefully he'll do it.
