LOL LWB I saw you post on Jar's thread that your husband was afraid of you when it came to the kid's and OW being involved with them and taking your child to the bathroom. The night my husband and I had this break through I think he was scared of me. I was just done done done taking the blame for everything. I became a lunatic that night. LOL Not hittimg him or being real physcho or anything. But I was pissed and did yell. I pointed out all his faults and forced him to see where he has been wrong. Something just broke through to him that night. The way I put it to him is listen I know I have faults. I have been working on me. But you need to understand this isn't a one way street. Now you are going to listen to the way I feel or the faults I see. Then let's see if we can hash things out when we both know we were at fault.